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Soapbox Therapy

Soapbox Therapy: The Friend Zone

Categories: Love

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There is a dimension which is known all to well by men. A dimension as quietly emotional as it is painful. In the middle ground between the love of your life and the realities of your relationship with them lies the pit of all man’s fear. An area all men know as…The Friend Zone. (Cue the theme song.)

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Soapbox Therapy: Your Brain Is Cock-Blocking You

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We’re funny. Serious. Smart. But sometimes in life we hide behind those things to protect ourselves from letting others get too close. Brooke explains more on being yourself without hiding behind yourself.

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Soapbox Therapy: Jealousy and Feeling Like a Teenage Girl

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How early in a relationship can you ask if the other person is dating other people? It can be an honest and nagging feeling we can’t control, but it can have disappointing consequences if not handled properly. Brooke has how to deal.

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Soapbox Therapy: The Big F’ing Deal About Football

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It seems like an age-old battle: guys want to relax and watch the game and women get annoyed by it. But like with most relationship clashes, there’s more to it than there seems. Brooke breaks it down and explains how everyone can get what they want.

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Shit or Get Off The Pot: Jon’s Long Distance Relationship Dilemma

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While some song writers may say all you need is love, resident relationship expert Brooke knows men can also benefit from a swift kick in the pants from the boot of knowledge. Check out her no holds barred advice for a reader confused about the transition from a mostly digital to a mostly long distance relationship.

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The Modern Day Bad Boy: Introducing The Good Guy

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It seems as if the day is upon us, fellow gentlemen. The time of nice guys finishing last has come and gone. It’s simple: play them at their own game. Brooke shows us how.

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Brooke on Boys: Sexy Self-esteem 101…and a Little Oprah

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You’ve been hearing all your life that women love confident men. But many guys fail to distinguish confident from cocky asshole. Brooke gives the lowdown on how a guy can have sexy self-esteem, without being full of himself.

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Soapbox Therapy: How to Support Your Girlfriend When She Doesn’t Land Her Dream Job

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When your girlfriend suffers, you suffer through proxy, as reader Dave discovered when his girlfriend couldn’t pull her dream job. While it’s not your job to get your girl hired, you can lend a hand by removing her personal stumbling blocks.

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Soapbox Therapy: The Thing About Dating Someone with a New Career

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Finding the person of your dreams and landing your dream job are two of the most important things to people in their 20′s. So what are you supposed to do when your dream girl says she can’t date you because she’s afraid of messing up her dream job? Brooke has the answer.

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Soapbox Therapy: The Thing About Relationships That Are All About Sex

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Every man can feel insecure with his partner once in awhile, but if you’re focusing all of your relationship energy in the bedroom, something’s up.

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Brooke on Boys: Why Valentine’s Day Matters

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Listen, we know you’re not that into Valentine’s Day – neither are we. But that doesn’t matter, because it’s not about us, or even our relationships. Listen to Brooke as she fills you in on the real reason this day matters.

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Soapbox Therapy: Rollercoaster Ryan and the Introverted Extrovert

Categories: Live

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Ryan is normally the life of the party, but some nights he calls it off, stays in alone to dick around on the internet or play video games, and then feels anti-social and guilty for ditching his friends. Is something up? Our expert Brooke weighs in.

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Introducing Soapbox Therapy: An Advice Column For Guys from an Experienced Psychotherapist (She’s Cute Too)

Categories: Learn

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Primer is excited to announce our new monthly advice column, Soapbox Therapy, created for guys just like us who may need some anonymous counsel from time to time.

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