Primer Magazine

Skip the movies this time and do something that offers the opportunity to actually talk to each other.

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Use this guide as inspiration to find something she wants, no matter who she is in your life.

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We grew up with the notion of taking a woman to a fancy dinner for a first date, but this isn’t only expensive it can actually work against you.

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Relationships, especially at this time in our life, can be a mess. Psychotherapist Steven Bernstein reflects on what he’s learned.

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People like to joke how complicated women are, yet the right flowers at the right time can melt even the most intricate woman. We’ll show you how, what to look for, and where to get a bouquet for less than what you blow on lunch.

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It has been said that variety is the spice of life. Keeping things fresh and exciting is a challenge, and sometimes coming up with the right idea for a special day with your lady is no picnic. Unless, of course, you take her on a picnic, which you should totally do. We challenge you to finally take that girl on a much-deserved, overdue picnic within two weeks. Will you accept?

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What do the differences between someone loving poppy Lady Gaga and someone else loving black metal Gorgorth have to do with your dating life? Surprisingly, more than you’d think.

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It can seem like there is only one socially acceptable place to meet people: bars. The thing is alcohol, loud music, and crowds don’t encourage serious relationships. Stop putting all your luck in the local watering hole and you might finally meet that certain someone.

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There is a dimension which is known all to well by men. A dimension as quietly emotional as it is painful. In the middle ground between the love of your life and the realities of your relationship with them lies the pit of all man’s fear. An area all men know as…The Friend Zone. (Cue the theme song.)

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Some of the best lessons men can learn are from hearing the horrible tragedies brave souls have had to endure before us. Heed these warnings from resident dating expert Ethan Fixell so you never get trapped in a dating ambush.

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We’re funny. Serious. Smart. But sometimes in life we hide behind those things to protect ourselves from letting others get too close. Brooke explains more on being yourself without hiding behind yourself.

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Sometimes the small and easy things in life mean the most, a thoughtful card on Valentine’s Day being the perfect example. Don’t worry about buying an expensive gift, a card that can express how much she means to you will mean a ton more to her, and last longer than overpriced flowers.

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How early in a relationship can you ask if the other person is dating other people? It can be an honest and nagging feeling we can’t control, but it can have disappointing consequences if not handled properly. Brooke has how to deal.

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A simple meal at home can be tastier and more romantic than an expensive restaurant. With Valentines Day coming up (ahem) we Recession proof your plans with this easy homemade meal that won’t hamper the romance.

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The average age that guys are settling down is way up compared to even our parents generation. Resident dating expert Ethan Fixell details the 5 ways men sabotage their own relationships until they’re finally ready for the long haul. Which are you guilty of?

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Coming up with gift ideas for a girlfriend or wife can be surprisingly difficult, and the usual gift guides that list overpriced jewelry or $300 cookware aren’t much help. That’s why we asked a few girls what their favorite gifts they’ve received from guys are. These don’t require a huge credit limit and you’ll definitely find something she’ll love.

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All women have the right to a blow-up, mood swing, or bad day every now and then, but if her coldness seems to last longer than a Siberian winter, it may be more of a character trait then was apparent when you met her. Use this guide of 10 ice-cold attributes to diagnose if you’ve stumbled into a relationship with arctic royalty.

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It seems like an age-old battle: guys want to relax and watch the game and women get annoyed by it. But like with most relationship clashes, there’s more to it than there seems. Brooke breaks it down and explains how everyone can get what they want.

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You may think that hot middle-manager is attainable — and maybe she is — but you’ve got to think big picture when it comes to workplace relationships.

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While some song writers may say all you need is love, resident relationship expert Brooke knows men can also benefit from a swift kick in the pants from the boot of knowledge. Check out her no holds barred advice for a reader confused about the transition from a mostly digital to a mostly long distance relationship.

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It seems as if the day is upon us, fellow gentlemen. The time of nice guys finishing last has come and gone. It’s simple: play them at their own game. Brooke shows us how.

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You’ve been hearing all your life that women love confident men. But many guys fail to distinguish confident from cocky asshole. Brooke gives the lowdown on how a guy can have sexy self-esteem, without being full of himself.

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When your girlfriend suffers, you suffer through proxy, as reader Dave discovered when his girlfriend couldn’t pull her dream job. While it’s not your job to get your girl hired, you can lend a hand by removing her personal stumbling blocks.

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Breaking up is only hard to do if you do it wrong. (Read: how every guy does it.) But if she’s sleeping on the job you’ve got to pull the plug on her like the guy who’s not making his numbers. Rather than make it an overly personal and drawn out emotional process, keep things cordial — and your car safe from her keys.

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