The Paradox of Trying to Improve Your Personal Style

The reason we get stuck in style ruts.

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The paradox of trying to improve or change your personal style is that you're not going to like how it looks at first.

It's going to feel different – you're going to think it's too tight, or too loose. The colors don't match right. But the thing is, if you don't allow yourself to feel that, you'll never change.

You'll never improve: Your style will always stay the same. And that's how you become one of these dads who are still wearing their same clothes from the 70s.

So let yourself feel it. Let yourself feel like it's wrong.

Where to start:

→ Re-watch Crazy Stupid Love on Amazon Prime.

Andrew Snavely

Andrew founded Primer in 2008 and brings 15+ years of men's style expertise. Known for his practical, relatable approach to style and self-development, he has been a recognized speaker at conferences and has styled work for top brands. Off-duty, he loves photography & editing, and enjoys road trips with his dog, Leela. Raised in rural Pennsylvania, educated in DC, and living in LA for nearly 20 years, Andrew's diverse experiences shape the relatable and real-world advice that has helped millions through Primer. On Instagram: @andrewsnavely and @primermagazine.