Well, gentleman, per usual we're all cutting it pretty close with buying our Valentine's Day gifts. If you think about it, it's really only a thoughtful gift if you wait until the 36 hours prior to Valentine's Day stressing about what you're going to do. If it isn't painful, is it really love?
I kid, of course. Valentine's Day is one of those made up holidays that all of us gripe about but still feel obligated to participate in. Between anniversaries, holidays, and birthdays, I feel like the relationship gift-giving is pretty well covered, BUT HEY THAT'S ME.
Nonetheless, there is a sense of guilt when you choose to do nothing for your partner on Valentine's Day. Like bringing a bottle of wine that never gets opened to a party, it's better to be safe than show up empty handed.
And if you've looked up Valentine's Day gift idea guides, you're presented with either ridiculous suggestions that are more expensive than the furniture in my living room, or, it's like…a Champion baseball cap. (I straight up saw that in a guide. What are you doinnggggggg.)
That's why I've compiled the following list of thoughtful gift ideas that should still arrive in time using Prime shipping. (You'll want to confirm that before ordering, based on your location.)
My recommendation? Do something low key and thoughtful, meaning specific to your partner and relationship like takeout cocktails from the restaurant you had your first date or a quiet picnic with a view, and include one or two of the gifts below as something to tie the whole thing together. Don't forget to write a Valentine's Day card.
A daily fill-in-the-blank reflection journal for couples
A daily short prompt for both of you to fill in, with spaces on each page for the next 3 years to watch how you, individually and as a couple, evolve.
An instant print digital camera to save your memories in the physical world
Take it up a notch and add in a scrap book. By next Valentine's Day you'll have a year's worth of memories
Something they can cuddle up in all day
Some guys buy their partners skimpy lingerie for Valentine's Day, others mega comfortable sweatshirts. We're more of the latter. For a men's version, check out this cozy option.
A cashmere blanket for your head
I wear this super soft and lightweight watch cap regularly.
Start speaking the same language
One of the most important and revealing concepts you can learn in your relationship is your, and your partners, love language. It clears up a lot of things. So buy two copies and read it together this month. There's a reason it has 43,000 reviews with a 5 star average and is one of our essential books to read when the honeymoon period is over.
A scented candle connected to their home
Add a personalized touch to your gifts with one of these highly rated home state candles that are hand-poured in the US.
Something fun to bring you closer together
A card deck featuring guesses and challenges designed to help you get to know each other more deeply.
Schlep around in sheepskin-lined suede slippers
They're so comfortable you'll both want to wear them.
Give your travel-loving partner hope
A small, stylish cork globe that you can pin where you've been together and, maybe, where you're going next once we're able.
For the couple that are also WFH coworkers
Blocking the noise from all your Zoom meetings may be the most wonderful gift of all.
A USA-made cutting board that'll last as long as your relationship
Made in the USA by Sonder LA, these attractive cutting boards feature beautiful grains.
Some satisfying self care
Nothing like super soft skin after a long day, this body polish exfoliates and moisturizes.
The perfect quarantine date night recipe book
This couples' recipe book features cocktails, meals, and desserts you can make together.
An Instagrammer-favorite throw blanket
A good blanket should be super comfy, and this may be the comfiest of all. I purchased it as a Christmas gift and it's employed on the couch daily.
Something sweet for your sweetie
This highly rated treat hails from Iceland by Omnom, a bean to bar chocolate company.
A quality minimalist watch that looks like it cost a lot more
I've had this watch since we first featured it a few years ago. It's simple and clean but with great details like rose gold tick marks and the brown and black suede strap.