@Derick – Thanks for the comment bro! I strongly recommend you pick the book up – should be able to grab it for $10 or so and it is WELL worth it. It’s one of those books you have to read with a highlighter – so much good-ness to take in. Cheers!

@Lisa – You’re not a guy? What….the….hell?? HAHA – kidding kidding! It is extremely comforting to know that we’re all in this together – we’re all out there trying to find the meaning of life, and through all the chaos and adversity, there is comfort in knowing and being able to talk to others who are going through similar circumstances. I’m happy to spread some wisdom that I try to apply to my everyday life, both personally and professionally. Thanks for the comment and, as always, for the support.

I really enjoyed reading this article. I didn’t take any philosophy courses in school, but after reading articles from you and Ryan, I have to say that I am becoming very interested in the topic.

I think I like the third principle the best. So many times in my life I have incorrectly made an assumption and been either pleasantly suprised or disturbed by my assumptions being incorrect. An important thing to remember when trying to grow personally is to be open to new ideas and opportunities. The opportunity that helps you the most could be the one you had never before considered.

Great first article in a promising series of primer mag articles.

I am not a guy (obviously!) but I can certainly relate to everything you are saying. Maybe this can be attributed to the fact that we are the same age, and like many 20somethings, we all face similar changes and challenges throughout life. A lot of us share the same experiences, and that is incredibly comforting.

Each of the “agreements” can be used in our daily lives- both personally and professionally, and I truly feel as though all of us (the entire global population) would benefit tremendously if we all adopted these rules and agreements and implemented them into our everyday lives. I think that is the beauty of these principles- each and every person can benefit from them and relate to them, irrespective of one’s gender or age group. The Four Agreements are so universal.

Thanks for spreading words of wisdom.

Thanks for the book recommendation as well, I’m putting it on my list.

These are really good pieces of advice, as you mentioned, for everyone to follow (not just 20-something guys.) The world would probably be a little better place in fact if everyone did. I also think your final final point is most excellent. Too often people forget their past or the things/people/events that brought you to the point that you are at. The four agreements have no bearing on your present and future if you have no foundation on which to base them.

@Adrian – Thanks for the comment! And you’re right – these ‘agreements’ are extremely hard to follow at times – but I think the takeaway here is that the agreements can mean different things to different people. Your best and my best may not mean the same thing. Many of these are ‘easier said than done’ but when you look at them as ‘guidelines’ instead of strict rules, you’ll realize that all are extremely do-able if you put forth the effort. Cheers!

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